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Submitted by Answer.s. on February 6, 2010 - 6:34pm
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okay.. my my ex boyfriend.. he was my best friend. when we broke up i wasnt hurt, i was blank, and numb my emotions were spinning. we have never spoken since (its been 2 months)i felt that in my life i wouldnt need him, i was perfectly fine.. he didnt exist to me anymore. but it hit me! i have no idea what is happening, all of a sudden i have this erge that i miss him.. BUT I DONT WANT TO! Thats the thing, its like the magnet is sticking but i want to force it away. i obviously lost my best friend. and i cant be friends with him because he probably hates me. its confusing. but why now? all of a sudden? what should i do? and i dont even know what to say, if i were to, but im so scareed and i dont understand why
Okay, it's not the end of the
Submitted by yolkyolk on February 12, 2010 - 10:46pm.Okay, it's not the end of the world. talk to him and tell him how you feel. if he doesn't listen, he's not really your friend. Don't ignore the fact that you miss him. i recently lost my BFF and I got over it, and I am better off without her. Just find the flip side of everything.
why now?.. you forced
Submitted by Adren on February 9, 2010 - 12:04am.why now?.. you forced yourself not to feel those things.. you pretended to be angry and not want him around.. now that you are no longer angry you realize you were indeed hurt and that you have missed him.. not being angry means that you have forgiven him.. but that doesn't mean that you should get back in touch with him.. you shouldn't do anything but think about why you broke up with him.. do you really want him back, does he deserve to have you back.. listen to reason when making this decision, not your emotions.. these will come and go.. it's part of life.. you will lose other loves and you will miss them all.. it gets weirder as you get older and you find yourself thinking about those you were with at one point and so in love with and it didn't work out.. imagine missing three to five people you were in relationships with.. it's like losing a loved one to death.. you'll think of them and you'll miss them but as time passes by you carry on with your life but you are still reminded of them by the smallest things, like a smell, sound, movie, situation, etc.