Is It Right?

Do you think it is okay for a man, who claims to be "with you" to have a POF (plenty of fish - dating site) account and be on everyday?? He claims he will always have it.....

How can i say I dont want him to have it without sounding obsessive??

When we r out he never says he is my boyfriend, he always says nothing - and he claims because he is with me 4/5 night out of the week, its okay

PLEASE HELP ME!!!

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it's definitely not okay if you want more.. you need to discuss with him what your relationship is.. talk to him about being exclusive or just flings.. if you want more, which it sounds like you do, then he needs to know and if he only wants a fling then he needs to tell you.. if at the end of the day you decide to be flings then you are both free to do whatever but if you two decide to be exclusive then he needs to delete that account, he can always start it up again if it doesn't work out.. many couples have problems because of online sites such as myspace, facebook, dating sites, etc.. it's not good to be an active user of these and conversate with people of the opposite sex on a regular while in a relationship because it becomes problematic.. my girlfriend and I fight all the time about people we add to our friends lists.. silly but a lot of hook ups do occur over these sites.. good luck.

Oh and i had to change my status to in a relationship, yet he is still single -