Adren, thank you for your reply but...

you're right.. telling her you "love" her is a bad idea.. what I meant was to simply discuss the incident to clear things up and simply apologize and say that it's because you have feelings for her that you acted so foolishly.. and I disagree that she has no feelings for you at all.. they might not be romantic but she definitely likes you as a person if she's willing to forgive and forget.. but in my mind your relationship is doomed anyway, because of the fact that you have feelings for her.. those feelings won't go away and it's going to drive you crazy, especially when she starts seeing someone else.. it's torture, trust me.. so I always say you might as well go for the gold and risk it all, win or lose.. it's up to you.. but for now you should definitely work on gaining her trust and comfortability first before you put all your chips on the table.. but discussing it would be my first piece of advice, the incident that is.. sorry if I don't make sense but these things are complicated.