Our FriendShip is now broken

This Wednesday, my closest friend in the world texted me saying that she no longer wants to deal with me. I was pissed off but I just said "No Problem" (It was more detailed but it rather not go that into the quote.)

We haven't talked to each other since Halloween, that's a very long time in our standards for I would call her 2-3 time a week. It started because I didn't want invited a boy that she knew from the internet. I told her no but she could invite a friend from SCHOOL or vice versa. It seemed that all she was "no" and was upset and called me "Anti-Social". I didn't want to risk our lives to meet some guy we didn't know of.

fast forwarding We had a talk explain what happened and said that we need to work on communication the only thing she said was "I wish the same from you."

On the day of halloween, my friend told me i was More Anti-Social Than her in many ways. That insulted me and hurt my feeling deeply. The fact that she compared me to her like that was...unbelievable. Ever Since I haven't talked to her at all. I wanted to talk to her but that comment she made about me hurt so much, I couldn't bare it.

She then texted me saying that me not calling her proves that I don't want to deal with her anymore and she no longer wants to deal with me....I've been through a lot of crap with her for the past 1 1/2 all I said was "Not a Problem, It's a pity that it had to end this way, but I was just following your lead. I wish nothing but happiness from you're family"

I am hurt by this...very much, 10 years of friendship went down the drain. but at the same time angry; not thinking about why I didn't want to talk to her jumping to horrible conclusions and causing me stress every time she's "In a mood".

I don't know what to do. I'm not crawling back to her, but part of my wants this to mend. Help :(